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Sunday, August 9, 2009

Happy Birthday Big Boy.

Phoenix Gabriel, you are 4 today according to our calendar. I miss you terribly and wish you were here. I can imagine you running around with your baby brother Forest and I am sure that the noise around here would be crazy. My heart hurts but we are doing well. Your big brother and sister wish you were here. They pray for you all of the time... they pray for God to please tell you how much you are loved and missed. We can't wait to join you. Love you baby boy... MOMMY.

Monday, July 7, 2008

Strange

Each day is better. I miss my little guy, but I know he is well and I am feeling good. But, I am finding that I have a big hole in my life. I find myself longing for a 3 year old little boy. I should have been potty training this past year. I should have been disciplining and running ragged trying to keep up with him. He should be swimming in our pool and bouncing on the trampoline. I can literally see him doing all of those things. I miss you Phoenix. Mommy can't wait to see you again. I will hold you for as long as you will let me...

Saturday, May 24, 2008

A lifetime

I am still unwrapping this package of grief that I was handed almost 3 years ago. Can I just say that I want my baby boy back so badly? I have been OK for a while and thinking of him every day, but lately, I am just suffocating. I look at the pictures of him and my whole body aches. WHY? WHY? WHY? I just want him back. I want to hold him. As my relationship with Forest grows, I realize so much more what has been taken from me. He looks at me and knows me now. He smiles and rests so peacefully in mommy's arms. Why sweet Phoenix did you not get that chance?
I have nothing to give to anyone around me once again. I wonder how long this can go on? Mourning is such an all encompassing experience. Once I enter in, all of my energy is there and I can give nothing. I can't answer the phone, I can't be with others, I just hurt. I know God is wrapping His arms around me, even as I type. Yet, I had to be honest, I am doing nothing but hurting right now...
I guess I have a lifetime ahead of me... and I know I will be aching for him through all of it.

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Lesson from Ava






After Phoenix was born, I didn't share our photos much. I loved him so much, and I couldn't bear the thought of someone else seeing him and NOT loving him and seeing how precious he was... because all they would see was a puffy and purple little boy. But, I underestimated people. I have watched so many of you love Ava. During the baby dedication for Ava at her house, her daddy said, "Before Ava was born, I didn't know what unconditional love was. Now, I know. She is my daughter and I love her. Even with her imperfections." So, I feel a bit sad that I haven't given you the chance to know and love Phoenix. I know you did as well as you could, but I have been so guarded of him. So, here he is, our sweet little boy, so beautiful to us. We miss him.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Still praying

Well, God in His sovereignty has kept Ava here for a week now. UNBELIEVABLE. It is a miracle. Thank you Lord for her precious beautiful life. Thank you.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Please Pray.

My friend has headed to the hospital to give birth to her precious girl. Please pray that she will be OK. That God in His sovereignty would keep her here for as long as possible. If it be a few minutes, a few years, or 80 years, pray that His will would be done and that her mommy and daddy and family would be surrounded by the presence of God and know that He is there with them.

Thank you...

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Adios mi amigos!

Well, for the last few months I have laughed and cried with you all. Mostly cried. Now, I will be blogging on a different page. I will come back occasionally and post if there is something I need to say about Phoenix. He'll be mentioned in the other blog too. He IS after all, a part of the family. The new blog is www.wildfamilychronicles.blogspot.com. You should visit. You can click below on "The Call of The Wild". I couldn't include Cook anywhere... they were all taken. It's like Smith or something. (:

I am truly grateful that you have taken the time to listen. It means the world to me. Really.

Until later...